We all need some time away from our romantic partners and some time to just chill with our friends. But, how much time is too much time? It seems that some relationship coaches have begun to ban “guys night out” for men in relationships. Check out why they think it might be bad for your relationship!
Night Out or a Relationship
Could a night out with the guys ruin chances for a stable, loving relationship? Or is that a form of freedom and trust for your partner? Many have debated the topic for a long time. While some claim it’s dangerous to be out without your partner, others find it to be a test. Would a night out be distracting? Would it serve as an outlet, where the men act wild and single? Or is it just a regular night, chewing different topics? Perhaps it’s a good thing to focus on your partner, and not distract yourself with your friends.
Outside Factors Could Be Harmful
When a man is out with his guy friends, what are the women in their lives doing? They might be sitting on the couch and wondering if other women are hanging around trying to break their man’s loyalty. Or they might also be out with girlfriends. Does going out separately all the time speak of a good relationship? Or is it a harbinger of problems to come?
You could listen to advice from life coaches, or you could make a checklist of what works for you. If your partner and yourself are fully trusting one another, a night out without each other shouldn’t sway your feelings. But, if there’s trouble in paradise, a life coach could give you some golden advice, if you choose to follow it diligently and have the love and stability you want!